7 days post op…

7 days post op…

I can’t believe it has been seven days since my breast were chopped off. Wow…. how time flies when you are asleep for seven days. That has been my reality for the past seven days. I have been taking my pain pills and sleeping because the pain has been pretty overwhelming for me.

I have read that some women wake up from surgery relieved to know the cancer is gone. I wondered what my reactions would be the few minutes before I closed my eyes as I drifted off to darkness while they operated. As I woke up from surgery all I can think of was this incredible pain in my chest, how did they let an elephant sit on me during surgery. The pressure was intense, my breathing was very shallow and actually still is. Small quick breaths is all that I can breath.

I remember waking up and seeing Forrest there, I remember the warm tears coming down my cheeks, trying to hold back sobs. Why was I crying? I was not relieved that never crossed my mind, I was sad, I was changed. I was also in so much pain all I could do was cry…. then the darkness came again.

Later that night I woke up just enough to realize it was American Idol night… t.v. please.. I asked. So I caught just a few minutes of she shocking bottom two and then darkness hit me again.

I can not describe to you what this has felt like, for those of you who have gone through this you are very strong women! The pain comes from the four drainage tubes coming out of your body and the expanders placed in your tight breastless chest. The feeling of foreign objects pushing out of your skin is undescribable. Each movement takes my breath away, each step, each time I sit up Forrest has to remind me to relax first. Easy for him to say!

I have been so blessed to have so much help this past week, from my mother to my aunt, to Forrest’s family and so many have brought food. Thank you so much…. my family has been so blessed because the kids really have no clue to amount of pain I am in, because there world has remained the same.

Today is day seven…. yesterday was a hard day. It is haunting at times this process. Lonely as well. I sit in my bedroom, thinking that I can’t even believe this happened. Forrest finally said… believe it… it is done. But is it really? Did I really have my breasts chopped off? Did I really have cancer? It all went so fast. From my diagnosis, to my first surgery to this big surgery. It is so hard for me to be in so much pain that all I can do is lie down and sleep, I am such an active person. This is the first time I can actually sit up and type…. and even while doing it I must breath short painful breaths and move as little as possible.

I know each day it will get better, my skin is already adjusting to all of the plastic that is in me. I hopefully get these drains out of Friday and then maybe I can wear normal clothes. I am sitting here with my bedroom door open, I hear the rushing of our creek, the horse neighing and the birds singing. I am grateful even when I am in pain, I am thankful even when I feel lonely, I am humbled even when it hurts to type these words. Because today the doctors say I am cancer free, today no more treatment is needed. It could be worse, way worse…. so in this I am humbled.

I also know that this story may not be over, I may be cancer free today or for the next year but I truly do not know if it will come back or not. I am ok with this… I will continue to live like I have, loving my life, loving my family and hopefully loving the new boobs that should come my way in eight months or so!

Comments ( 3 )

  • You are truly an inspiration,courageous and strong. There are many people thinking of you and you are most definitely NOT alone.
    Big cyber hugs and you are beautiful with or w/out knockers!!! LOL
    Rhonda

  • Amber, today I am thinking of you and celebrating how far you have come. I know we have never met formally, but we are sisters, of sorts, brought together by what we are going through. I remember the pain coming out of surgery, the drains, being the WORST. It truly is indescribable! You are inspiring others and just in that fact you are strong! It doesn’t mean you can’t cry for the pain and emotional waves you feel…your body and mind are forever changed. But day by day, through the hellacious twists and turns, you take little steps toward the next day, always keeping your eye on the prize of a life saved, a new lease, more time here with those you love, who love you right back, no boobs or new perky boobs! Believe in yourself and keep rested…your active life WILL once again be yours to grasp!
    HUGS TO YOU!

  • You are amazing and so incredibly strong. I will continue to pray for you as each day passes that you will recover both physically and mentally. Thank you for sharing your story and I’ll be thinking of you and your family.

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